I will never forget visiting my sister when her second child, Joshua, was still a baby. We dropped by a neighbor’s house, and as we were getting ready to leave, my sister picked up Joshua and his pacifier fell out of his mouth. The neighbor picked it up and asked, “Do yo u want me to wash this for you?”
我永远也不会忘记有次我去看我妹妹，那时候她的第二个孩子Joshua还是个婴儿。我们还去了邻居家坐坐，当我们准备离开时，我妹妹抱起Joshua的时候，他的奶嘴从嘴里掉了。邻居捡了起来，问：“我去洗洗吧？”
My sister grabbed the pacifier, stuck it back in Joshua’s mouth, and replied, “Second child.”
我妹妹吹了吹奶嘴，把它重新插回Joshua的嘴里，说了句“第二个孩子了”
It is very natural but extremely unfortunate that our first child engenders a powerful sense of over-protectiveness that borders on paranoia. Every little mishap is viewed as a major catastrophe and we berate ourselves unmercifully for failing to take the proper precautions. This insistence that the world be perfectly safe for our child not makes our first-born unnecessarily nervous, it really is not good for our own psychological health.
很自然又极不幸的是，我们的第一个孩子通常被过度保护到了偏执的程度。每一个小错误都被看成是大灾难，我们严厉的自责，怎么就没有做好防范。但我坚持认为这个世界对我们的宝宝很安全，不必对第一个宝宝过分紧张，这对我们自己的心理健康不利。
That is another reason why I encourage first-time parents to bring their babies to Romp n’ Roll. The opportunity to watch more experienced parents react to minor slips and tumbles calmly and casually, and to see their babies not only survive but thrive as they continue on with undiminished excitement and enthusiasm, allows them to achieve the considerably healthier relaxed attitude that comes with a second child a lot faster.
这也就是我总是鼓励初为人父人母的朋友带宝宝来悦宝园的原因。在这里他们有机会看到其他经验丰富的父母们是如何冷静地将小磕碰视为平常，而他们的宝宝们也不仅仅是保平安，而是生机勃勃的成长着，这样可以让初为父母的朋友很快就有了对待第二个宝宝那样的超级健康放松的态度。
扫扫下方二维码，关注我们的官方微信账号“悦宝园教育”，更多丰富内容在这里等着你哦~
全国免费服务热线：400-960-8188
